Drinking, partying and ripping your clothes off will foolishly make you believe guys are interested in you. You will be popular, but not in the right way. Labels come with certain behavior and this type of behavior is often thought of as being easy or promiscuous. You have more worth than giving yourself that reputation.
Wild partying has a price. Alcohol, drugs and sex are often involved. There are consequences to each. Alcohol can lead to making bad decisions, such as getting behind the wheel of a car and possibly killing yourself or someone else. Drugs become addictive. The use of drugs and/or alcohol combined with sex blank out common sense to use birth control. How sad it would be to have a baby born from sex, drugs and alcohol, a baby you are not prepared to raise. You are putting yourself at risk, not only for an unplanned pregnancy, but the decision of whether to have an abortion and the emotional effects of an abortion. You may contract one or more of the numerous STDs and a lifetime of regret.
There's a difference between having fun as a young woman and developing dangerous lifestyle patterns. Positive fun develops you as a positive and productive person. A dangerous lifestyle develops a possible lasting path to destruction.
If you are living a wild and free lifestyle, ask yourself 'why'. Maybe you feel the need to escape. If so, talk to someone and figure out what you are trying to escape. Maybe you crave attention. Ask yourself why you crave attention in this way. In what area are you missing the right kind of attention that you'd do anything to get negative attention? Are you holding anger and rebelling with your behavior?
Even though you are an adult, you need to set boundaries. Boundaries show you care about yourself enough to create a life that is positive and fulfilling and not destructive.
A dangerous and wild lifestyle will not build you up. It will knock you to the ground at some point. If you are living a wild and dangerous lifestyle give great thought to changing. You will feel immensely better about yourself. You will have something great to offer a deserving man who comes into your life.