We live in a sex-crazed society. Sex is thrown in commercials, magazines and in many areas of everyday life. Virginity in a modern dating world is becoming more obsolete, especially among young adults. Maintaining virginity takes dedication and commitment. Many people lose their virginity because of peer pressure or the need to fit in. Neither are good reasons to have sex. Having sex comes with a multitude of responsibility.
In the modern dating world, sex is often looked at as a recreational activity more so than an act of love. This can lead to both emotional and physical damage. There are valid reasons to maintain virginity, despite the other direction some people choose to go.
Beliefs
Most religious cultures teach against sexual intercourse before marriage. If you are dedicated to your religious beliefs, maintaining virginity becomes even more important. According to the Bible, sex before marriage is a sin. Sex was intended to be a beautiful and pure aspect of marriage. If you are committed to maintaining virginity, you will likely be committed to dating someone with the same beliefs. In turn, you will be more compatible because of your beliefs and commitment.. Giving the most intimate part of yourself to your future spouse is the purest of gifts.
Prevention of STDs
There are numerous sexually transmitted diseases that can be contracted during vaginal, oral or anal sex. Some are treated relatively easily with antibiotics or other medication. Some STDs are deadly and involve years of suffering. Having sex outside of a committed and trusting relationship is like playing Russian Roulette. If you choose to maintain your virginity, you are defending yourself against these diseases.
Unplanned Pregnancy
A baby can be conceived the first time you have sex. The more you have sex, the greater your chances are of becoming pregnant. Abstinence is the only way to make certain an unplanned pregnancy does not occur. If you are a virgin, you will not be faced with the possibility of an unplanned pregnancy. You will not have to decide between abortion or keeping the baby. There won't be heated arguments about child support or custody issues.
Emotional Emptiness
Sex without commitment and love often leaves a deep and empty feeling. There is a difference between making love in a committed and loving relationship and having sex. Having sex leaves a euphoric high that equates to an emotional feeling of love and being wanted. After this feeling wears off, reality sets in. Sex does not always lead to the emotional intimacy most people long for. It often leads to an emptiness because one person gets emotionally involved and the other does not. If you wait until you find the person who is committed to and loves you, the chance for heartache and emotional emptiness lessens.
Self-esteem
Consequences come from having sex. Casual sex can lead to a bad reputation. Even if your heart is in it, word gets around with how many people you have had sex. After you realize that the person you are having sex with doesn't really care about you, there are hurt feelings. You may even begin to feel worthless. Your self-esteem takes a plummet. If you maintain virginity, you don't have to worry about a bad reputation. You don't have to worry about feeling unworthy because sex meant something to you, but not your partner. Confidence in yourself will increase by standing up for what you believe in.
It is your choice to maintain virginity or to have sex. You are the one in charge of your life and your body. Just because you are an adult in age, does not mean you are ready to give up your virginity. Maintaining virginity shows maturity and courage in making decisions that are best for you and your future.
In the modern dating world, sex is often looked at as a recreational activity more so than an act of love. This can lead to both emotional and physical damage. There are valid reasons to maintain virginity, despite the other direction some people choose to go.
Beliefs
Most religious cultures teach against sexual intercourse before marriage. If you are dedicated to your religious beliefs, maintaining virginity becomes even more important. According to the Bible, sex before marriage is a sin. Sex was intended to be a beautiful and pure aspect of marriage. If you are committed to maintaining virginity, you will likely be committed to dating someone with the same beliefs. In turn, you will be more compatible because of your beliefs and commitment.. Giving the most intimate part of yourself to your future spouse is the purest of gifts.
Prevention of STDs
There are numerous sexually transmitted diseases that can be contracted during vaginal, oral or anal sex. Some are treated relatively easily with antibiotics or other medication. Some STDs are deadly and involve years of suffering. Having sex outside of a committed and trusting relationship is like playing Russian Roulette. If you choose to maintain your virginity, you are defending yourself against these diseases.
Unplanned Pregnancy
A baby can be conceived the first time you have sex. The more you have sex, the greater your chances are of becoming pregnant. Abstinence is the only way to make certain an unplanned pregnancy does not occur. If you are a virgin, you will not be faced with the possibility of an unplanned pregnancy. You will not have to decide between abortion or keeping the baby. There won't be heated arguments about child support or custody issues.
Emotional Emptiness
Sex without commitment and love often leaves a deep and empty feeling. There is a difference between making love in a committed and loving relationship and having sex. Having sex leaves a euphoric high that equates to an emotional feeling of love and being wanted. After this feeling wears off, reality sets in. Sex does not always lead to the emotional intimacy most people long for. It often leads to an emptiness because one person gets emotionally involved and the other does not. If you wait until you find the person who is committed to and loves you, the chance for heartache and emotional emptiness lessens.
Self-esteem
Consequences come from having sex. Casual sex can lead to a bad reputation. Even if your heart is in it, word gets around with how many people you have had sex. After you realize that the person you are having sex with doesn't really care about you, there are hurt feelings. You may even begin to feel worthless. Your self-esteem takes a plummet. If you maintain virginity, you don't have to worry about a bad reputation. You don't have to worry about feeling unworthy because sex meant something to you, but not your partner. Confidence in yourself will increase by standing up for what you believe in.
It is your choice to maintain virginity or to have sex. You are the one in charge of your life and your body. Just because you are an adult in age, does not mean you are ready to give up your virginity. Maintaining virginity shows maturity and courage in making decisions that are best for you and your future.